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Pets, No Kids? The Ultimate Estate Planning Guide for SINK, DINKWAD, and More

Don’t plan to have kids? Love your dog like a child? Find out your estate plan strategies, tailored to you.

Maya Powers

Maya Powers, @MayaPowers

Estate Planning Content Expert, Trust & Will

The conversation around estate planning admittedly centers around the themes of family and legacy often. So much so, that if you identify as someone sans family (aside from your parents or siblings), you may think there's nothing in it for you.

We're asking you to reconsider.

If you're among the growing group of individuals who go by acronyms such as SINK (single income, no kids), SINKWAP (single income, no kids, with a pet), or DINKWAD (dual income, no kids, with a dog)—estate planning is just as important. Further, there are unique considerations and opportunities that pertain specifically to these individuals that they should know about. If you don't feel like estate planning is for you, and especially if it's because you don't feel like you fit the mold of a traditional family, then this guide is for you.

SINK, SINKWAP, DINKWAD: What do they mean?

You might have seen acronyms such as SINK or DINKWAD decorating the likes of Tik Tok and YouTube, and they help capture the essence of an important phenomenon.

More and more Americans are identifying with non-traditional family structures, and they deserve to have a voice. According to Pew Research Center, the share of U.S. adults who don't expect to have children is growing. 44 percent of non-parents under the age of 50 feel that they not too or not at all likely to have children. This statistic has grown significantly from as recently as 2018.

This demographic is growing and diversifying, encompassing a wide range of ages, professions, and backgrounds. Recognizing the specific needs and opportunities for estate planning within this group is essential, as traditional advice often overlooks these circumstances.

SINK is an acronym that stands for "Single Income, No Kids." It describes individuals who are the sole earner in their household and do not have any dependent children. This can be by choice or by circumstance. For the context of this article, SINK mainly relates to unmarried, single individuals with no children.

SINKWAP expands upon SINK with the addition of "With A Pet." Similarly, DINKWAD is a popular acronym used on social media by individuals who identify with the label, "Dual Income, No Kids, With a Dog."

Endless iterations can stem from these key acronyms, such as if you own a cat, chinchilla, or identify as someone who loves their plants as much as they would children—you get the idea.

Why Estate Planning is Important if You Don't have Kids

Estate planning often goes hand in hand with familial concerns. Traditionally, the main drives for establishing a comprehensive plan are to provide for spouses and children and to ensure the seamless transfer of assets within a family structure. But what if you choose a long-term partnership instead of marriage, or don't want kids but feel like your dog is your child? Know that individuals without children have just as much at stake when it comes to making their end-of-life wishes known and their financial legacy clear.

Without children, you might assume that estate planning is unnecessary. But the reality is that individuals or couples with no children are more susceptible to the intestate laws that dictate how your assets are distributed if you pass away without a Will. Leaving behind a legacy, naming a pet guardian, sharing plans for charitable giving, creating a succession plan for a business, and making medical decisions known are all critical reasons why any individual need an estate plan. We'll go into more of these examples in the next section.

4 Reasons Why You Need an Estate Plan

In today's rapidly evolving society, young adults are increasingly choosing paths that diverge from traditional milestones such as marriage or parenthood. This trend is often attributed to economic instability, educational debt, multiple recessions, and the global pandemic.

Let's face it -- today's reality is vastly different from what the Baby Boomer and Gen X generations prepared us for.

For many, the decision to remain single and childless is driven sometimes by choice, but also frequently by circumstance -- all resulting in a significant rise in single or childless households.

This demographic shift underscores the importance of estate planning, a critical process often overlooked by those without traditional family structures. Even without the concerns of providing for a spouse or children, the necessity of a comprehensive estate plan cannot be understated.

Here are four critical considerations for why you should have an estate plan, no matter how you define the word "family."

  • The law may not recognize your definition of "family": For example, let's talk about couples who are in a life-long commitment but choose to stay unmarried. Regardless of the reason, the state unfortunately doesn't play in gray areas. That means that default estate planning rules may not apply to you or be there to protect you.

  • Someone will have to handle your affairs: Regardless of your wealth level, someone will need to manage and distribute your assets after your passing. Without a clear estate plan, including a will or trust, your belongings could become entangled in probate, a lengthy and costly court process, or worse, end up as state property.

  • Healthcare decisions: Estate planning is crucial not only for asset distribution but also for making critical medical decisions should you become incapacitated. By establishing a Healthcare Directive and Medical Power of Attorney, you ensure that your healthcare wishes are respected and executed by someone you trust.

  • Financial management: Should you become unable to manage your finances, a durable financial power of attorney allows you to appoint a trusted individual to handle your financial affairs, avoiding court intervention and potential mismanagement.

  • Appoint a pet guardian: For many Americans, a pet is not unlike a child or family member. In the case something unexpected were to happen, you'll want to make sure that your best friend will be well-cared for. If for nothing else, set up your estate plan to name a guardian for Fido.

Unique Estate Planning Considerations for SINKs

When tackling estate planning, your approach will be different from that of an individual with dependent children. There are no default beneficiaries, which gives you the freedom to craft a personalized plan without the constraints of family obligations. At the same time, this also means that you must thoroughly consider your priorities and identify who or what will benefit from your estate.

One of the primary challenges individuals may face is deciding who will act on their behalf if they’re unable to make decisions due to incapacity. Without a spouse or children, you need to identify trusted friends or relatives who can serve as Executors, Trustees, or Power of Attorney. Consider relationships carefully and always have back-up plans in place to ensure that decision-making authority doesn't fall into the wrong hands.

When crafting your estate plan, several crucial components should be addressed to ensure a comprehensive and effective strategy:

  • Will Creation and Distribution of Assets

A Will is the foundation of most estate plans. It allows you to specify how you want your assets distributed after your passing. For SINK individuals, deciding on Beneficiaries and considering legacy gifts and charitable giving play a significant role in Will creation.

  • Power of Attorney and Healthcare Proxies

In the absence of a spouse or children, selecting an agent through a Durable Power of Attorney is vital for managing your financial affairs, particularly if you become incapacitated. Similarly, Healthcare Proxies empower a trusted person to make medical decisions on your behalf if you cannot.

  • Trusts and Estate Tax Considerations

While Trusts may not be as essential for SINK individuals as for those with spouses and children, they can still be beneficial. Revocable Living Trusts offer privacy, efficiency in asset transfer, and can bypass probate for Beneficiaries of your choosing. For individuals with substantial assets, estate tax planning is crucial to maximize the wealth you can pass on to loved ones or any causes you care about.

Planning for Charitable Giving

Individuals often find fulfillment in charitable giving and may wish for their estate to reflect that. Estate planning offers the opportunity to leave a significant impact on causes that are meaningful to you.

You can incorporate charitable giving into your estate plan through various avenues, such as bequests, charitable Trusts, and Beneficiary designations. Each method offers its own benefits, from immediate tax deductions to the eventual transfer of assets to a charitable organization.

Charitable giving can also provide significant tax benefits, both during your lifetime and after. Understanding these implications is essential to structure your estate in a tax-efficient manner, ensuring that more of your assets go to support the causes you care about.

Trust & Will is Here to Help you Craft the Perfect Estate Plan

Estate planning is an essential step for every adult, regardless of marital status or parental responsibilities. The process is uniquely empowering, allowing you to direct your legacy in a manner that aligns with your values and goals. By taking the time to understand the various elements of estate planning and seeking professional support as needed, you can secure your financial future and leave behind a legacy that honors your life and passions.

The intricacies of estate planning can be complex. You may face unique scenarios that require a nuanced approach. Working with an experienced estate planning professional or financial advisor can provide invaluable guidance and ensure that your estate plan is legally sound and reflects your true intentions.

Life is not static, and neither should your estate plan be. Regular reviews—especially after significant life changes, such as the acquisition of new assets or changes in relationships—are essential to keeping your estate plan current and reflective of your wishes.

At Trust & Will, we’re here to help keep things simple. You can create a fully customizable, state-specific estate plan from the comfort of your own home. Take our free quiz to see where you should get started, or compare our different estate planning and settlement options today!

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